An Overdue update…

Hey Everyone,
We want to say thank you again to all of you who continue to pray and support us. We know that without a support team in the states this job we are doing would be much more difficult. We also want to let you know that we have lost some support this term due to deaths or struggling churches and individuals, so if you know of someone who might want to join our team financially or a church looking for a new missionary, please let them know about us. If you have any questions about this or to find out more about our support needs, please feel free to email us. We don’t have the opportunity to share this stateside, hence why we share this here.

It’s been a couple of months since our last update, we apologize for that and will try to briefly fill you in. There are many reasons for this but the past couple months our internet has been horrible and not able to get into our blogspot to update you all.

There were a few weeks that were stressful at times due to medical emergencies with our Dem friends. Here is a bit about that:

Over a month ago, a lady named Desira, who lives about 2 hours hike away, gave birth but the placenta was stuck. It was going on over 9 hours, so we contacted the aviation mission community, and there happened to be a helicopter that was in the area. The helicopter stopped in our front yard, picked up Briana and myself and we flew to the village to check Desira for ourselves. We  decided she and the baby (a preemie who had been lying on the cold, wet floor for 12 hours without being held or nursed!!) needed medical treatment in town. So I (J) took Desira and her father to town. We only spent 1 night in town, but she got the care she needed and we returned to have Briana and Kendra (one of our coworkers) monitor her and baby closely all week. We are happy to report that her and baby are doing well.

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A couple days after that, a young man named Deminut, cut his foot very badly with an axe and lost a lot of blood. The people wanted us to fly him to town, but we explained that the plane isn’t at our disposal and we didn’t think it was necessary. We helped in all the ways we could and he is doing well.

A week or so after that, another man, named Sem, basically split his foot in half, length wise with an axe, but surprisingly there wasn’t a lot of blood!? There also happened to be a government run airplane coming the next morning, so we had him go to town to get it looked at by a doctor. He is doing well.

Then the next day people came from that same village as Desira (the other lady with the retained placenta), about 2 hours away, saying a lady named Wanise had been in labor for 4 days, and still no baby. Briana had actually just seen and checked her the week before and we thought she was maybe pregnant with twins because her belly was BIG. We contacted a mid-wife in town, relaying all the info we had and tried to get as much advice as we could, since where the lady lived there was no internet for Bri to talk to the mid-wife once they got there.
Bri and Kendra decided to hike there around 2 pm, check her progress, and most likely tell them they needed to carry Wanise to the airstrip for a med evac the next morning. The ladies were planning on hiking back the same evening, but it wouldn’t stop raining and the lady needed to be monitored. Thankfully we had a satellite phone they could call the mid-wife and ask a few questions, but the connection and weather was so horrible that they could barely hear each other.
The ladies ended up spending the night in the hut and their plan was to leave that village around 4:30 am (Bri & Kendra along with men carrying the pregnant lady on a stretcher) so that they could arrive early in the morning for a med evac. flight. The ladies witnessed first-hand the dark animism that our Dem friends are enslaved to. Everything is caused by or influenced by the spirit world so throughout the night people inside the hut were yelling at the spirits and trying to chase them away. One of the things they did was kill a pig outside, another thing was sacrificing chickens inside the hut to appease the spirits, so this baby would be born. Needless to say, no one got much sleep.
While all this was going on, I was trying to arrange a flight to take Wanise and us to town. It ended up working out flawlessly as there was a doctor who was able to come in on the plane and check her progress on site. She checked her and had high hopes we could deliver the baby here, as she was able to assess the baby was indeed head down. Thankfully MAF (Mission Aviation Fellowship) was able to hang out for a couple hours to give her time to work. After almost 5 days of labor, Wanise gave birth to a very large baby girl and they both are doing well. Briana and Kendra learned a lot form the doctor. When the baby was born the umbilical cord was wrapped around the baby’s neck also, so they learned how to deal with that, amongst other things. We are truly thankful for the mission community in town that helps us in these situations and for us to show the love of Christ through medical.

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And lastly, we have had a young lady named Perisana and her new baby to care for. Perisana miscarried last year and beginning of this April gave birth to a healthy baby girl. She came to Briana 3 weeks after having a baby with complaints that seemed normal to us. After checking back in with her and still having complaints, Bri and our midwife in town were able to figure out that baby was not latching properly which had resulted in Mom stopping nursing the baby and no milk supply. When we saw the baby, it was very underweight and dehydrated. We (our coworkers and us) immediately took action. We started supplementing formula after we forced her to nurse as much as she could. We then got a breast pump from town and began trying to get the milk supply back up. The ladies have been working at it for weeks, which has been exhausting helping someone nurse and pump around the clock and cleaning all the bottles, prepping all the formula, etc. As of now, the milk has not come in enough to take care of her baby on her own, so we are just continuing to do our best and PRAY that God restores her supply for this baby. Otherwise it is going to be a LONG year for us all! Can you please pray that Perisana’s milk supply would come back and that her baby will thrive?

As you know our team in the tribe consists of 4 families and it’s great to have 4 families, especially when things like this come up to even out the load, but these medical situations all occurred during a time when there was just us and one other family. It was indeed a stressful couple weeks, but also very humbling and a privilege to see God’s PROTECTION and PROVISION through all this- with the helicopter that just happened to be close by, the days we needed flights for medical purposes there actually were planes available, to the doctor being able to come in and deliver the baby and how the mission community comes together at these times. We truly have been humbled by all that has happened and He has allowed us to be a part of. And we thank you all who were praying during all this.

On a lighter, different topic, we had language consultants fly in in March so we could do language evaluations. As mentioned before, there are 4 language evaluations to determine when we will be finished with Dem language study and before we can start translating and preparing to teach. Our co-worker, Dylan took his final language check and is officially finished with Dem language study!! I and another co-worker passed our 3rd language check. What that means, is my goal is to take my final check 4 before Christmas of this year (I’m hoping it will be a Christmas present to myself).

Please continue to pray for our Dem friends along with our team as it is just us and 1 other family in here for the next 5 months. Pray for wisdom when the next medical situation comes up as we usually have to make tough decisions on the fly while being pressured by our Dem friends. Also please pray for our co-workers who are state-side, that they would be able to be refreshed, encouraged and recharged for more times like this.:)

*Oh ya, and back in November Jared (1 of our partners) and I hiked across the valley to a neighboring tribe who have the Gospel to visit with our missionary friends. Here is a pic and a short video of me crossing the bridge at the bottom of the mountain. I would like to add it might not look that scary but it was high and sketchy. (sorry for the bad quality, I had to make the file smaller for our bad internet.)

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Here is Jared after we both made it across

Christmas Wish-List

Hey everyone,

We hope and pray you all had a great thanksgiving remembering all that the Lord has given and blessed us with. We also pray this month leading up to Christmas we can remember what we as the body are celebrating. Not the presents and lights but the greatest gift in the history of the world, Gods Son.

We actually have several things to update you on and will do so in the next couple weeks but we wanted to let everyone know that on January 2nd a couple people from our sending church will be coming to help us with some big house projects but mainly to secure the foundation of our house that seems to be sinking a little.

They will be bringing our kids school curriculum for next year along with other things we cant get get here in country. We have had several people ask if there are specific “items” we needed or wanted that they (the people coming) could bring so we put together an Amazon wishlist.

We know this is last minute and this kind of thing is always awkward for us but like I said, people have asked for specific “items” so here they are. If anyone would like to help with any of the items they need to be purchased within the next couple weeks so they arrive in time for the people to pack them and bring them.

Whatever is not purchased by 15th we will purchase ourselves. We appreciate you all so much and for your continued support. In the next couple weeks we will be adding pictures and updates about the last month or so.

You follow the link provided to the wishlist and the items will automatically be sent to the family coming.

– the Stokes’

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/GKZ58SDTCL9Y

 

Gods complete Sovereignty…

The Lord of hosts has sworn: “As I have planned, so shall it be, and as I have purposed, so shall it stand.” – Isaiah 14:24

I wanted to just send out a quick note sharing some very cool information. There are many days that are very discouraging with trying to learn a completely undocumented language and days we feel like we will never learn it and many other other discoursing thoughts. However, we were reminded  once again at God’s Sovereign plan for our lives, and not just ours, but the Dem as well.

Last week one of our pilots asked if he could bring in a visitor from the states who is a board member of MAF (Mission Aviation Fellowship) who wanted to see a newer work in Papua and visit a location where they fly frequently. So they came in for about an hour or  so just getting to know us and asking questions.

Before this man came he had no idea where/which tribe he’d be visiting as the local Pilot made all the plans. This visitor had actually lived in Papua for many years as a Bible translator with Wycliffe.  So as we are talking, he told us that a long time ago (I forget what year), but at least 25 yrs ago, him and his wife almost came to the Dem. They heard abut the Dem and the Dem were 1 of 3 different tribes they really wanted to work in but God led them to a different village.  He was so excited to see someone had finally come to the Dem as he had been praying for them for many many years and here he got to visit the place he wanted to move to many years ago. It was pretty cool that he was able to come visit and we enjoyed having him here to talk to and encourage us.

There was also another team about 8 years ago with our same organization that did a survey to the Dem. They really wanted to come here and were making plans on moving into the Dem, but for political reasons they weren’t granted permission and decided the door was closed and went to a different tribe.

And now our team is here!!  When we moved to Papua not knowing exactly what area or which tribe we would go to, God brought the Dem straight to us and they invited us to come live with them and the door was wide open. It was just a reminder that for many many years there have different people that have wanted to come to Dem but for whatever reason didn’t/couldn’t and yet God opened the door wide open to our team and has let us live here. A place that has wanted missionaries for 40+ years.

The Sovereignty of God is an incredible thing when you think about it. God in His own perfect planning and allowance has brought our specific team to the Dem and when we feel completely unable, unqualified, incapable of doing this job we MUST remember that He has orchestrated our very existence on this planet and even to the jobs that we do, the houses we live in, the people we come in contact….. EVERYTHING.

He has promised in Isaiah 14:24- “As I have planned, so shall it be, and as I have purposed, so shall it stand,” and we can never forget that.

So thank you for having a part of the work here in Dem-land. There is a lot of stuff I can’t explain to you because I myself just don’t understand about living overseas and in the  jungle but I can tell you that through God’s divine intervention He has allowed our specific team to be here doing His work, so you can get behind that knowing that by you praying, supporting, and encouraging the work in the Dem you are having a part in GOD’S SOVEREIGN plan.

Language woes…

I was sitting in my office the other day and thinking to myself “I’m never going to be able to speak this language well enough to present the Gospel clearly.” (this happens many days).  I began thinking about many of our supporters and wondering if people in the states really understand the fact that we are studying  a language that has NEVER been studied or written down before, or just how complex these languages are. 

Languages in Papua are some of the most complex languages in the world with how a verb can change hundreds of different ways.  I was going over a chart that we have here  (that we have compiled) with some verbs, and was once again blown away (even though I see these charts everyday) at the craziness this is.  I began to think of all the missionaries for centuries going off to different areas of the world with the same goal as us and I’m sure that they too, at some point felt the same as I did, about never being able to learn this language well enough to present God’s rescue plan clearly, and yet by God’s grace they did.

Everyday I look across the huge valley that is separated by a big river and huge mountain range as far as I can see from east to west. That land I see everyday is a people group, that up until about 5 years ago had never heard God’s rescue story in their language.  Our friends, the Wild’s and Ingles’ moved there, learned the language, translated sections of the Bible, and there is now a growing Church.

I’m sure there were days those guys sat in their offices, on their porch hanging out with tribal guys thinking, “I’ll never get this language!”, but they did it. They remained faithful to the Lord, and of course God will build His church and is forever faithful in HIS plan for His bride.

This was an encouragement to me.  It didn’t make studying easier at all that day, but just reminded me that one day, in God’s perfect timing the Dem will hear His Gospel message. It may not be from my mouth.  It may be from our partners who learned the language faster than me, but that’s ok.  We are simply called to be the light in the darkness, to love others as He has loved us, and to Love HIM above all else.

I thought you all would get a kick out of seeing a very small glimpse of what this language looks like on paper.  These are the different variations of the verb “buy”.  This isn’t all of them but just what we have so far. So when you want to go “buy” something next time, try to imagine having to think through all the different ways you can say it in Dem and using the right form. 🙂

BUY-

  • ndoɣoɣwɑno
  • ndoɣoɣmuɾo
  • ndoɣoɣuɾo
  • ndoɣoɾoɣwio
  • ndoɣoɾɑɣo
  • ndoɣoɾɑmo
  • ndoɣoɑle deɾɑmo
  • ndoɣondemo
  • ndoɣoɑle dəndemo
  • ndoɣoɑnjemo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑo
  • ndoɣoɣolɑndemo
  • ndoɣoɑle doɣəlɑndemo
  • ndoɣoɾo
  • ndoɣoŋoɾo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑno
  • ndoɣoɣolɑŋoɾo
  • ndoɣoɾo
  • ndoɣondeo
  • ndoɣoɾɑɣo
  • ndoɣoɣolɑndeo
  • ndoɣoɾɑmo
  • ndoɣoɑle dəndemo / ndoɣondemo
  • ndoɣoɣwino
  • ndoɣoɣwinlɑndemo / ndoɣomeso
  • ndoɣubeɾɑmo / ndoɣoɾɑmo
  • ndoɣouβɑnjemo / ndoɣoubəndemo
  • ndoɣomeo
  • ndoɣomelɑndemo / ndoɣomeso
  • ndoɣoɾumenɑŋo / ndoɣoɾuo
  • ndoɣoɑnjemo / ndoɣondemo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑmeo
  • ndoɣoɑle dəndemo
  • ndoɣoɑle
  • ndoɣoɑwe
  • ndoɣoolo
  • ndoɣomelɑ
  • ndoɣomelɑ wiuk
  • ndoɣomelɑ dɑk
  • ndoɣomoɣo
  • ndoɣome ɑβo
  • ndoɣoɾɑlɑ
  • ndoɣoɾɑɣənɛk melɑ
  • ndoɣoɾekmeo
  • ndoɣoɑkmeo
  • ndoɣotne
  • ndoɣoɾɑme
  • ndoɣoɾɑβuk bɑ
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ uɾuɑm
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ njem
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ uɡulɑndem
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ βoɾo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ njeo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ uɡulɑndeo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ βoɾo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ nyoɾo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑ uɡulɑŋoɾo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑβolo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑmune
  • ndoɣolu
  • ndoɣolu
  • ndoɣoɾɑ məŋɡɑo
  • ndoɣoɾe koɾɑmo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑɾəɡe njemo
  • ndoɣoɣwɑɾəɡe nyoɾo
  • ndoɣoɑŋɡun nyoɾo
  • ndoɣomune
  • ndoɣoɣwɑmelɑ
  • ndoɣomelɑ oɣweo
  • ndoɣoɑmune
  • ndoɣoɾe

Thank you all for your faithful support and prayers.  I can’t tell you when we will be able to share the Gospel with the Dem, or how much longer we will be learning the language, as it’s just too hard to tell.  However, I can tell you that it will happen at some point just as God has promised us, that there will representatives before the throne of God “from every nation, tongue and tribe”, so you can rest knowing Gods plan for the Dem will not be changed despite my lack of abilities. And your prayers for the Dem are not going unheard.

We are humbled to be your feet to the Dem.

-J for the Stokes’ 

Extra Ipad anyone??

Hey everyone,

My mom is coming from the states in about 3 weeks for a visit and I was wondering if anyone had an old/extra ipad that you’d be willing to sell or giveaway? There are several apps and programs that I feel would be beneficial for language study but don’t wanna spend the money if someone has an extra one they aren’t using.

If so please contact us soon so I can arrange getting it to my mom before she heads this way.

Thanks everyone..

-J

5 year visas & back home….

Hey everyone,

This is going to be short but sweet. This past Tuesday we signed the papers for our 5 year visas. (FINALLY!!) That means for the next 5 years we do not need to worry about any kind of government paperwork. (at least the big serious ones) What a blessing it is to not have to worry about that aspect of our ministry and God used many of you to help the financial side of the visas and we couldn’t thank you enough.

It’s pretty awesome to think about in 5 years when we need to report again to the government we will have brothers and sisters from the Dem language. Its super exciting and you all should rejoice knowing you had a part of that also.

We are back home now in the jungle. Even though its been a lot of cleaning and work after being gone for 2 1/2 months we are very glad to be home. The kids love being back home and are  into exploring and playing with their friends.  Thank you everyone who have been praying for the visa situation and for our family.

 

Waiting, waiting & waiting….

Well in a nutshell we came out to town on Feb 1st because our visa expired Feb 2nd and we were supposed to be getting our 5 year visas. We were told 2-3 week tops. Well almost 9 weeks later we are still waiting. This has been very frustrating as things in a 3rd world country go, we can’t really get an explanation as to why. We have been told there were issues with someone down the line filing something wrong (Indonesian government guys) and missing paperwork, etc…

 We have been staying at the guesthouse and we are thankful to have a place to stay but this isn’t our home, this isn’t where we have important work to do and have been spending a lot of money we weren’t expecting to spend as staying at a guesthouse, renting cars, and having to eat out add up after 9 weeks, but God is ultimately in control and although we don’t know exactly “why” we are stuck here there is some reason and we must trust that it is for our own good.

 Please pray the government would finish the 1 last piece of paperwork they need to, so we can finish our visa paperwork process and get home. Please pray for our teammates as this has added extra work to their load as they have been watching our animals and looking after our house for much longer than expected.

 As for praises- we are thankful that almost 9 weeks in town and none of us have gotten malaria or dengue fever. (very common to get while at the guesthouse) Also praise we have been able to have more family time together. Life in the tribe is very demanding and although we try hard to not exclude or push our kids aside, sometimes its inevitable but being in town has allowed us to spend more time and give more of our attention to just the kiddos.

Thank you all for being apart of what God is doing and being our support team.

 

Welcome to our new blog…

We will admit that we aren’t the best at communication and sending out updates. There are many reasons that factor into this but we are trying a new blog/update platform here on wordpress. We ask that you please let us know your input and grant us grace as we try and figure out a better solution to send out updates more frequently and more easily with our limited internet in the jungle.

We do value you all so so very much and are humbled at being your feet to the Dem. IMG_2496